tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8554322107743820140.post2779360094708942431..comments2023-05-10T05:04:11.791-05:00Comments on Because I'm Your Mother, That's Why: Where I dread tomorrowChristinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11764899704457653919noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8554322107743820140.post-71689201549582612082008-06-03T20:12:00.000-05:002008-06-03T20:12:00.000-05:00Thank you both. It was a hard day, but I am glad i...Thank you both. It was a hard day, but I am glad it's over. I miss him so much.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11764899704457653919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8554322107743820140.post-55228908271866642932008-06-03T08:42:00.000-05:002008-06-03T08:42:00.000-05:00Your sadness and reflection take me back to Decemb...Your sadness and reflection take me back to December when our first "baby" Sophie died. We knew it was happening, but she didn't want to let go. I sat up with her one night. She refused to die in front of me. The next morning I left for work, my husband put her outside, brought her in, and caught her when she collapsed. She died in his arms. Hubby said he couldn't bring her in to the vet. He wanted her to go naturally. He got his wish.<BR/><BR/>Leo's death will help your kids understand what's going on with your dad. Kids really "get" death in a way adults don't. Kids don't rationalize or regret. They feel the pain of the moment. They intuit that it is the way things happen. I think it's because they aren't jaded by the world. Also, kids are better at dealing with their emotions. They don't feel embarassment or shame at expressing grief. It is what it is to them. I've learned a lot by watching my own kids grieve as well as many others. (My hubby is a funeral director and we own six funeral homes.)<BR/><BR/>Our good friend's dad just died early this morning. Like your dad, he was a cancer patient. He had just finished his third round of chemo and had gotten a good report. His white blood cells were low so they put him in the hospital. Yesterday, he suffered a major stroke and was gone this morning. It's unreal. It's horrible and devastating. It makes no sense. I need my kid perspective and kid heart so I can just feel and grieve and heal.<BR/><BR/>I pray for strength for you to get through the difficult days ahead. Look to your kids for acceptance and the ability to just feel each emotion as it comes.<BR/><BR/>I'm thinking about you!!Amy Jurrenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04299268097065662407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8554322107743820140.post-32368112276528128412008-06-03T03:04:00.000-05:002008-06-03T03:04:00.000-05:00I will and I am.Take care.I will and I am.<BR/>Take care.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com